These days the importance of emotional intelligence (EQ) at work is largely accepted
by most organizations. For example, if we assess EQ as well as technical
competence when we recruit and promote, it has been shown to significantly reduce
staff turnover - in one case by 63%! There is increasing evidence that hiring
emotionally intelligent recruiters will itself increase our ability to attract and retain
employees we want.
In other studies, emotionally more competent salespeople in an insurance firm, a
cosmetics and beauty products producer and a large beverage firm, outsold other
salespeople and dramatically improved the bottom line. And in two manufacturing
plants, training the managers in EQ resulted in a 50% reduction of lost-time
accidents, increased production of 17% and a reduction in formal grievances from
15% to 3%.
Further research has shown that the primary cause of derailment in executives is not
because of technical incompetence or lack of IQ. It is consistently because of poor
EQ skills: unsuccessful executives have difficulty in handling change, are poor at
interpersonal relations and unable to work well in teams.
The ability to work in teams is still one of the key requirements for employees today.
Which leads to this question: does a team need to have its own EQ? If you take a
number of emotionally intelligent individuals and put them together, do you get an
emotionally intelligent team?
Think about teams that you have worked in or observed. What makes the effective
ones work well together? When and why do they fall apart? In my experience,
powerful and productive teams have a strong sense of trust, are open and honest
with each other and hold each other explicitly accountable for their contribution to the
team's goals. Dysfunctionality begins when the team members do not honestly
communicate with each other, there is no real trust and little mutual accountability -
and these are all EQ competencies.
Understandably, teams are pre-occupied with getting the job done. Few teams
regularly take time out to reflect on how the team itself is working and what it needs
to do to improve the way its modus operandi. Even fewer set measurable objectives
for team functioning and/or get feedback from internal and external customers about
the teams' effectiveness.
Yet these are critical components of effective and productive teams. It is the first part
of team EQ - self-awareness and evaluation.
It requires more than individual members relating well on a one-on-one basis to have
an honest discussion about the way the team is working. It requires the team itself to
be able to address its own issues as a group.
One team I worked with, most of the team members had very good individual EQ but
they all knew that the team was not functioning as well as it needed to. There were
delays in making important decisions, a sense that not everyone was committed,
frustration that information was withheld or not openly shared and a lack of clarity
about what the team goals actually were.
When they came together to discuss the team's functioning, the level of tension and
discomfort was palpable. They were experiencing emotional responses to the team's
poor EQ dynamics. They needed a way to articulate this and find solutions. Happily,
they have started to assess what EQ behaviours are supporting the team's
objectives, what are getting in the way and what to do about this.
Yet how many times have you heard the phrase: "let's leave feelings out of this"
explicitly or by implication? It's clear now that successful organizations can't and
don't. So how can you improve your team's EQ?
One way is to establish agreed norms or rules for how the team is to operate and
rigorously stick to them. Norms could address the obligations of team members to
the team, how it will assess its performance, how it will work together, what
motivation systems will be used, how it will relate to customers and the mechanisms
to facilitate an honest exchange about the team norms and behaviours. Sometimes it
is helpful to have an external person facilitate these discussions particularly if the
team is in the early stages of building its collective EQ.
Establishing, articulating and reviewing norms is also important when there are
changes in the team membership - particularly if the team does not have a major
role in determining who should be in the team. A discussion about the group EQ is
also valuable at times of success as well as more challenging occasions.
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What is Emotional Intelligence?
EQ has 5 broad components:
- Our ability to be aware of, recognise and evaluate what we are feeling and how
we are reacting at any time, at work and elsewhere. How well do we know
ourselves? How honest and realistic are we about our own strengths and
weaknesses?
- How we manage and control those feelings instead of letting them control us. How
flexible are we in handling change?
- How good are we at motivating ourselves, persisting, hanging in there, and
gearing up - even when the going gets tough? Do we see the glass as half full or
half empty?
- How good are we at sensing how others are feeling? Are we empathic? Can we
`bracket' our feelings and remain attuned and focussed on the other person's
perspective?
- Are we good at relationships? What sort of interpersonal skills do we have? Can
we lead others, influence them, resolve conflicts and collaborate and co-operate with
people?
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